[privacy] use owner's default permission settings on "is now friends with..." msg

boot.php

@@ -2,7 +2,7 @@
 
 set_time_limit(0);
 
-define ( 'FRIENDIKA_VERSION',      '2.1.944' );
+define ( 'FRIENDIKA_VERSION',      '2.1.945' );
 define ( 'DFRN_PROTOCOL_VERSION',  '2.2'  );
 define ( 'DB_UPDATE_VERSION',      1047   );
 

mod/dfrn_confirm.php

@@ -434,6 +434,11 @@ function dfrn_confirm_post(&$a,$handsfree = null) {
 				$arr['object'] .= '</link></object>' . "\n";
 				$arr['last-child'] = 1;
 
+				$arr['allow_cid'] = $user[0]['allow_cid'];
+				$arr['allow_gid'] = $user[0]['allow_gid'];
+				$arr['deny_cid']  = $user[0]['deny_cid'];
+				$arr['deny_gid']  = $user[0]['deny_gid'];
+
 				$i = item_store($arr);
 				if($i)
 			    	proc_run('php',"include/notifier.php","activity","$i");