diff --git a/boot.php b/boot.php
index abc4c04e44..545883eb98 100644
--- a/boot.php
+++ b/boot.php
@@ -2,7 +2,7 @@
 
 set_time_limit(0);
 
-define ( 'BUILD_ID',               1019   );
+define ( 'BUILD_ID',               1020   );
 define ( 'DFRN_PROTOCOL_VERSION',  '2.0'  );
 
 define ( 'EOL',                    "<br />\r\n"     );
diff --git a/database.sql b/database.sql
index 8cf7241790..41d256d731 100644
--- a/database.sql
+++ b/database.sql
@@ -285,6 +285,7 @@ CREATE TABLE IF NOT EXISTS `profile` (
   `country-name` char(255) NOT NULL,
   `gender` char(32) NOT NULL,
   `marital` char(255) NOT NULL,
+  `showwith` tinyint(1) NOT NULL DEFAULT '0',
   `with` text NOT NULL,
   `sexual` char(255) NOT NULL,
   `politic` char(255) NOT NULL,
diff --git a/update.php b/update.php
index 9a829ce8b4..28e4bcf709 100644
--- a/update.php
+++ b/update.php
@@ -179,5 +179,7 @@ function update_1018() {
 
 function update_1019() {
 	q("ALTER TABLE `mail` DROP `delivered`");
-//	leaving open for more updates as this isn't critical enough to roll the build number
-}
\ No newline at end of file
+	q("ALTER TABLE `profile` ADD `showwith` TINYINT(1) NOT NULL DEFAULT '0' AFTER `marital` ");
+
+}
+