diff --git a/src/Model/Contact.php b/src/Model/Contact.php
index a92a901cf5..0e3de02d67 100644
--- a/src/Model/Contact.php
+++ b/src/Model/Contact.php
@@ -2211,10 +2211,10 @@ class Contact
 		}
 
 		if ((!empty($ret['addr']) && ($ret['addr'] != $contact['addr'])) || (!empty($ret['alias']) && ($ret['alias'] != $contact['alias']))) {
-			$ret['uri-date'] = DateTimeFormat::utcNow();
+			$ret['uri-date'] = $updated;
 		}
 
-		if (($ret['name'] != $contact['name']) || ($ret['nick'] != $contact['nick'])) {
+		if ((!empty($ret['name']) && ($ret['name'] != $contact['name'])) || (!empty($ret['nick']) && ($ret['nick'] != $contact['nick']))) {
 			$ret['name-date'] = $updated;
 		}
 
diff --git a/src/Worker/Notifier.php b/src/Worker/Notifier.php
index e31141ea46..60ae653855 100644
--- a/src/Worker/Notifier.php
+++ b/src/Worker/Notifier.php
@@ -534,7 +534,7 @@ class Notifier
 
 		foreach ($contacts as $contact) {
 			// Direct delivery of local contacts
-			if ($target_uid = User::getIdForURL($contact['url'])) {
+			if (!in_array($cmd, [Delivery::RELOCATION, Delivery::SUGGESTION, Delivery::DELETION, Delivery::MAIL]) && $target_uid = User::getIdForURL($contact['url'])) {
 				Logger::info('Direct delivery', ['uri-id' => $target_item['uri-id'], 'target' => $target_uid]);
 				$fields = ['protocol' => Conversation::PARCEL_LOCAL_DFRN, 'direction' => Conversation::PUSH];
 				Item::storeForUserByUriId($target_item['uri-id'], $target_uid, $fields, $target_item['uid']);