diff --git a/src/Model/Item.php b/src/Model/Item.php
index c75286b25c..537611dd1b 100644
--- a/src/Model/Item.php
+++ b/src/Model/Item.php
@@ -2391,7 +2391,7 @@ class Item
 		}
 
 		/// @todo On private posts we could obfuscate the date
-		$update = ($arr['private'] != self::PRIVATE);
+		$update = ($arr['private'] != self::PRIVATE) || in_array($arr['network'], Protocol::FEDERATED);
 
 		// Is it a forum? Then we don't care about the rules from above
 		if (!$update && in_array($arr["network"], [Protocol::ACTIVITYPUB, Protocol::DFRN]) && ($arr["parent-uri"] === $arr["uri"])) {
@@ -2409,15 +2409,15 @@ class Item
 			} else { 
 				$condition = ['id' => $arr['contact-id'], 'self' => false];
 			}
-			DBA::update('contact', ['success_update' => $arr['received'], 'last-item' => $arr['received']], $condition);
+			DBA::update('contact', ['failed' => false, 'success_update' => $arr['received'], 'last-item' => $arr['received']], $condition);
 		}
 		// Now do the same for the system wide contacts with uid=0
 		if ($arr['private'] != self::PRIVATE) {
-			DBA::update('contact', ['success_update' => $arr['received'], 'last-item' => $arr['received']],
+			DBA::update('contact', ['failed' => false, 'success_update' => $arr['received'], 'last-item' => $arr['received']],
 				['id' => $arr['owner-id']]);
 
 			if ($arr['owner-id'] != $arr['author-id']) {
-				DBA::update('contact', ['success_update' => $arr['received'], 'last-item' => $arr['received']],
+				DBA::update('contact', ['failed' => false, 'success_update' => $arr['received'], 'last-item' => $arr['received']],
 					['id' => $arr['author-id']]);
 			}
 		}
diff --git a/static/dbstructure.config.php b/static/dbstructure.config.php
index 7433531fe7..14a52aa9ad 100755
--- a/static/dbstructure.config.php
+++ b/static/dbstructure.config.php
@@ -54,7 +54,7 @@
 use Friendica\Database\DBA;
 
 if (!defined('DB_UPDATE_VERSION')) {
-	define('DB_UPDATE_VERSION', 1356);
+	define('DB_UPDATE_VERSION', 1357);
 }
 
 return [
diff --git a/update.php b/update.php
index 1a9a60ac65..a4d71bc4fd 100644
--- a/update.php
+++ b/update.php
@@ -535,3 +535,43 @@ function update_1354()
 	}
 	return Update::SUCCESS;
 }
+
+function update_1357()
+{
+	if (!DBA::e("UPDATE `contact` SET `failed` = true WHERE `success_update` < `failure_update` AND `failed` IS NULL")) {
+		return Update::FAILED;
+	}
+
+	if (!DBA::e("UPDATE `contact` SET `failed` = false WHERE `success_update` > `failure_update` AND `failed` IS NULL")) {
+		return Update::FAILED;
+	}
+
+	if (!DBA::e("UPDATE `contact` SET `failed` = false WHERE `updated` > `failure_update` AND `failed` IS NULL")) {
+		return Update::FAILED;
+	}
+
+	if (!DBA::e("UPDATE `contact` SET `failed` = false WHERE `last-item` > `failure_update` AND `failed` IS NULL")) {
+		return Update::FAILED;
+	}
+
+	if (!DBA::e("UPDATE `gserver` SET `failed` = true WHERE `last_contact` < `last_failure` AND `failed` IS NULL")) {
+		return Update::FAILED;
+	}
+
+	if (!DBA::e("UPDATE `gserver` SET `failed` = false WHERE `last_contact` > `last_failure` AND `failed` IS NULL")) {
+		return Update::FAILED;
+	}
+
+	if (!DBA::e("UPDATE `gcontact` SET `failed` = true WHERE `last_contact` < `last_failure` AND `failed` IS NULL")) {
+		return Update::FAILED;
+	}
+
+	if (!DBA::e("UPDATE `gcontact` SET `failed` = false WHERE `last_contact` > `last_failure` AND `failed` IS NULL")) {
+		return Update::FAILED;
+	}
+
+	if (!DBA::e("UPDATE `gcontact` SET `failed` = false WHERE `updated` > `last_failure` AND `failed` IS NULL")) {
+		return Update::FAILED;
+	}
+	return Update::SUCCESS;
+}